We called two relatives this week to see if we could visit them in a couple of months. The visit will take us half way across the country so seeing both families is very important. The call to the first family was greeted with, "Let me see if we are free that weekend. I know I have a couple of things that month."Further conversation indicated our relative was very pleased we are coming and they would get right back with us...which they did and they are free to have us visit.
The conversation with the other relative was different. "Oh that's great. We love spending time with you. Of course we will make it work." This relative and family are equally as busy as family number one.
Guess where we feel more welcome? It really is amazing how a slight difference in word and tone can make such a difference.
It makes me think again of the parable of the prodigal son. After years of squandering his father's money and living a life of debauchery, the prodigal son decides (with some fear and trepidation) to return to his father's house. As he comes down the road, the father is looking for him and greets him with enthusiasm, love and welcoming. In fact the father throws a party for him.
Isn't that the way we hope we are greeted when we "return to the Father's house?" Do we believe it?
Have you made someone feel welcomed and loved by your words and tone today? That is how we live out our faith.
Blessings-Penny
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